CANCER STORIES AND HAPPY ENDINGS

For so long as I can remember I have always loved reading books.

Books have always been a major part of my life. They have brought me to unknown places, introduced me to some of the most interesting people that I would otherwise never meet. I have always been thrilled by how words would plunge me into images of formidable stone castles, alien territories and of course, the anticipated happy endings. Love stories, ghost stories, espionage, history…I love them all.

These days though, I am reading "books" of a different kind.

At the Cebu Cancer Institute, every morning for the past twenty days, as I patiently wait for my turn at the radiation room I have been "reading" people.

Occasionally, I "read" about the young wife who is brought in by ambulance every morning from the Seaman’s Hospital, and her husband who has taken a leave from his work to be with her. In the first few days of my treatment, she would be brought in on a wheelchair with a smile for everyone. Lately, however, she has been wheeled in on a hospital bed with an increasingly dazed look on her face. Her husband who is always clad in a baseball cap and shorts, is equally dazed as he holds up the bag of blood attached to his wife. I have heard the whispers that her cancer was too advanced when it was discovered and that they are now taking desperate moves. I can just imagine him endlessly mulling over the irony that he spent long months away from her so that they can build a happy future together. Only to come home to her now this way.

On other days, I "read" about a doctor’s wife whose breast cancer has just recurred, this time on her bones. She is a little older than me and everyday she comes in with her mother. I "read" about the mom who is a nutritionist and has much advice to give us. After all, not only is she a dietician but also a doctor’s wife. She could spend hours and hours talking to all of us about the wonders of broccoli and the wisdom of going to a surgical oncologist and not just a surgeon. What touches me though is that every so often, when no one seems to be looking, she would stare lengthily in space with a blank look and tears in her eyes, slowly shaking her head in what must be regret that she didn’t know enough to prevent her daughter’s recurrence.

Some days, I "read" about the middle-aged school principal who has come from Iloilo for treatment for advanced Lung Cancer. Her husband has been a smoker all these years and the secondhand smoke is what must have brought this upon her. I "read" about the absence of any sort of blame that she might hold on her husband, understanding how deep her love for him must be.

Most recently, I have been "reading" about the new patient from Iloilo, who is a nurse. She first had breast cancer four years ago but, optimistic person that she is, she was sure it would not return. Just this summer though, she found another growth on her left breast. Before she could complete chemotherapy for the second cancer, she found another recurrence on the first site. She told me the other day that someone told her that she has the gift of healing and she attributes her cancer to a failure to complete a session on Pranic Healing that she once conducted. Or something to that effect.

I "read" about how cancer has changed these people’s lives. I "read" their words, their thoughts, their silent prayers. I "read" their trials, their disappointments, their dreams. I try to catch the underlying fears behind the brave fronts…the unspoken mother’s love for a sick daughter…the young husband’s silent resolve to give his wife the best possible care, never mind that he doesn’t know where the next thousand pesos will come from…the stories behind the empty looks that cross everyone’s face, every once in a while.

As I read these stories, I watch for every opportunity I get to hopefully change as many endings as I could. I tell these people about God’s faithful provision in my life. I tell them about the father heart of God and how it is not in His character to inflict pain on His children. I tell them about the true gift of healing that is God’s pleasure to give. I tell them that it’s okay to put ourselves first this time, and that our families and concerns will take care of themselves. I tell them to go ahead and receive openly the love and support that other people give. I tell them that a positive attitude can make so uch difference. I am hoping that as they change their outlooks and seek God as their healer, they will find their own healing. After all, I always loved happy endings.

Everyday, so much stories unfold before me. Everyday, I leave that place a little more enriched by what I have learned. Everyday, I thank God a little more for my ever-growing assurance that He is in control of my life.

Ten more days of radiation therapy, and reading lives, to go.